Dear sick, whether it is related or not, having a sore throat and swollen glands can be a real drag. The symptoms you describe could be a common cold or strep throat, but they could also be caused by an infection you may have received during oral sex. Its possible that your partner may have a sexually transmitted infection (sti) without knowing it, and passed it on to you through fluids. Always, except for 2 guys i dated who were not sleeping around. I not only get sore throat, but i get small white sores on my tonsils. I get antibiotics and have to endure the fever and flu like symptoms and im good again a week later. The main symptom of oral gonorrhea is a sore throat but up to 90 of individuals infected may have little or no symptoms. These symptoms of oral gonorrhea are the same for men or women and usually occur a few days after oral contact (about 7 to 21 days )with a partners genitals or anal area when the partner is infected with n. My boyfriend seems to get a sore throat after every time he performs oral sex. Weve both been to the doctor in recent months and have tested negative to all stds. I do not have a yeast, bacterial or any other infections at this time. A sore throat is a common sign of an oral sti, along with tonsillitis, oral lesions, or cold sores. If you find that you are experiencing these symptoms regularly after performing oral sex, you may want to see your health care provider for testing and treatment. This can result in delayed treatment, which increases the risk of transmitting the infection to others. one of the first signs that you might have a sore throat from an std is if you recently had unprotected oral sex. It is possible to catch an std from someone you have a trusting relationship with, but it is even more likely if you dont know the person very well. An211693 posted so this weekend (friday and saturday) was the first time i have my boyfriend oral sex without a condom, all other times we had used protection. He was tested about a week ago and i was with him when he got the phone call that he was clean. Oral herpes is highly contagious and can be transmitted through direct contact between the affected area and mucous membranes or broken skin. During an outbreak it is recommended that you do not kiss others on the mouth or face. Spend extended periods of time in the sun, as uv rays can make herpes.